Welcome and congrats on your awakening!
As for your friend you must understand...she responded the way SHE WAS PROGRAMMED to respond.
Understand that it is a powerful conditioning that the JW's undergo. Look at yourself, you said after being faded and your own research you were able to come to these conclusions, now imagine dropping that info on someone who is unsuspecting and not open to criticle thinking against the WTS.
I know for me it took 2 yrs of being out before I could type in 'Jehovah's witnesses' into a search engine and look at the results with out feeling guilty.
Once again congrats on your awakening, but understand that you cant drop bombshells on people who dont even realized they are asleep and ensnared.